When doing things, writing articles, thinking stuffs, we often get affected by ourselves. it quite a bullshit, since everything we do, write, we think mush be base on ourselves. however, it is more like a boundary, than a benefit.
" a Great people is, who know how to break through himself. "
one way to breaking through, is using third body view point. looking following example.
(1) i like apples.
(2)Ryan likes apples.
(1) sounds like a personal judgment, (of course, it is!) (2) sounds like a common fact, that, Ryan, this guy, likes apples.
Lets take one more example.
(1) i think, it is a good way to break through myself.
(2) Ryan thinks, it is a good way to break through himself.
See? by putting out ourselves out of ourselves, we can have a more critical standpoint, argument. compare (1) and (2) we can see, we can not use (1) to argue with ourselves! if someone can do so, it is a truly "contradict". by using (2) we can how easily think another possibility that "Ryan" may be wrong!
the last example.
(1) i feel sad for my girl friend does not care about me.
(2)Ryan feel sad for his girl friend does not care about him.
See again? by using third body viewpoint, we can even help ourselves out of sadness!
(2)
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